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DO YOU HAVE FOMO? DO THESE

  FOMO, or "fear of missing out," is a real phenomenon that is becoming increasingly common and can cause significant stress in your life The feeling or perception that others are having more fun, living better lives, or experiencing better things than you are. It involves a deep sense of envy and affects self- esteem. It is often exacerbated by social media sites like Instagram and Facebook. This is rooted in our lack of knowing who we are. So we constantly go back to media to define us and feed us with who we think we should be based on highlights of other people's lives. This leads to a false sense of identity, and consequently, a live outside of purpose. How do you overcome FOMO? 1. IDENTIFY and ADMIT IT Identifying the presence of a problem is critical to solving it. You can't keep a facade for too long. Admit you have FOMO. Admit the the type of FOMO. And you are on your way to getting out of it. 2. CLARITY OF IDENTITY Truth is FOMO creeps in when you are not...

What to do WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.

Stuck or confused are few words we use to describe situations we don't know how to come out of. In the first place, we don't wish to be caught up in them at all, but when when they happen, what do we do? Before I go further, I want you to know these truths;  We will all have our share of this phase in our lives. God will not take you through unnecessary situations Confused doesn't mean you are not Spiritual.  It doesn't mean you are less of a child of God than when you had clarity.  It doesn't mean you are a failure.  It is God putting you in a place of strength.  What should be your response to these confused situations you never prayed for? Let's delve into them one after the other. 1. STOP. DON'T DO ANYTHING! Not doing something when you feel lost and confused is a healthy action. Most of us go back and forth between totally hiding out from our problems at one extreme, and at the other, pushing-pushing-pushing to get life to be better, and that's exha...

What do When: You GET ANGRY

Hi dearest reader,  It's being a minute here. My apologies, I've just found it easier posting contents on Instagram than here. Well let's clear the cobwebs here with the first episode of my current weekly IG series;  #Thechristianwhattodowhen series.  So what is the first episode about. ANGER! This will open your eyes to a lot of things, and really bless you. Do well to share ❤.  ANGER It feels just right I let you in into some WHATS AND WHYS about anger before WHAT TO DO WHEN IT HAPPENS. Definition ; Anger, also known as wrath or rage, is an intense emotional state involving a strong uncomfortable and non-cooperative response to aperceived provocation, hurt or threat IS ANGER A SIN? No it isn't. It is an emotion. What you do with it can be a sinBe ye angry, and sin not... Ephesians 4:26 KJV WHY DO WE GET ANGRY? We all pick offense or get angry! If you claim otherwise, it safe to say you are not human, lol, or you probably mean you express anger less and differently ...

7 HEALTHY HABITS OF STRONG BELIEVERS.

           "We first make our habits,             then our habits make us" Hi friends! Great to be back here. I'm glad you are here too! While praying about what to write, it was laid on my heart to encourage you with these simple but powerful daily habits that will totally transform your spiritual life. I pray that the Spirit of God will help you to read between the lines and get much more than the seven habits I have written here, and also grant you the grace to practice them till they become part of you! The secrets to living a strong, victorious Christian live are not hidden from us. They are just embedded in simple everyday habits. However they do not become habits if we are inconsistent, or unintentional about them. Simple daily routines most of the time determine our results in many areas of life. For instance, your daily facials will definitely result in smooth face. There is no super formula to becoming t...

Positioned for a Purpose

Your position is not your purpose,what God want you to do with it is your purpose. It mainly a platform for its  fulfillment That position is only a tool (a needed one I must say) to help you facilitate the purpose of God. He is not interested in putting you in positions for position sake. No! He definitely want you to do something with it . He has placed a profitable ripple effect of that position inside the purpose, which if we fail to realize and do, we will not be fulfilling His will. When we talk about positions, minds mostly think the financially buoyant, statesmen, title holders etc. Not at all. We are all specifically positioned somewhere  (location or status wise) and we must be useful for God there. Understanding this helps us to grasp the fact that we don't need to be the richest, highest, most popular and so on before fulfilling purpose.        Let's see John the Baptist in Matthew 3.  The bible described where he reside...

PANTING?

I read quite few articles about the Deers and their panting habits. They get a reasonable supply of water from their food, but really need more to maintain their body fluid level by constantly drinking from water brooks here and there, especially the ones located in a very quite and serene area. But as I read further I realise beyound maintaining body fluid level, panting after water is a survival mechanism for them in their habitat. Come along.  As the hart pants and longs for the water brooks, so I pant and long for You, O God. My inner self thirsts for God, for the living God. When shall I come and behold the face of God? Psalm 42:1‭-‬2 AMPC This scripture metaphorized our souls' panting after God as the deer's panting after water. At this point let us define Panting - It is a longing for or to do something either out of exertion or excitement. Here are few insights I got about deer and the water brook, and how it is a perfect example of how our heart and ...

DAILY DEATHS.

We were all born into this sinful world and inherited sin. When we think about the cross, we are reminded that Jesus Christ came to sacrifice Himself for our sins. He took our sins and transgressions upon Himself and gave to us His righteousness. We were declared 'discharged and acquainted' by God through Jesus Christ. However, this is just the beginning of a lifetime journey. From the time we got saved, we would have to make choices either according to the flesh or the Spirit of God. We would have to renew our minds by the Spirit and Word every seconds that we breathe. If we don't, it would make it easier for the devil to keep us at the primary level of being saved and not live as God children and ambassadors here on earth.  When you got saved, it was an entry into the Kingdom of God, and living by continuous renewal of your mind by the word of God and a Spirit controlled life is what will sustain you here. You wont slip away. If we become so passive to remain as we ...